capital L for alya!!! hahhaha...

i was so wasted last night that i shall call myself a loser... lol...


i wanna talk about open relationship...

An open relationship denotes a relationship (usually between two people) in which participants are free to take other partners; if the couple making this agreement are married, it is an open marriage. While "open relationship" is sometimes used as a synonym for "polyamory" or "polyamorous relationship", these terms are generally differentiated. The "open" in "open relationship" usually refers to the sexual aspect of a non-closed relationship, whereas "polyamory" refers to the extension of a relationship by allowing bonds to form (which may be sexual or otherwise) as additional long term relationships:

• Some relationships place strict restrictions on partners (e.g. polyfidelity); such relationships are polyamorous, but not open.
• Some relationships permit sex outside the primary relationship, but not love (e.g. swinging); such relationships are open, but not polyamorous.
• Some polyamorists consider 'polyamory' to be their philosophical orientation — they believe themselves capable and desirous of multiple loves — whereas 'open relationship' is used as a logistical description: that is, it is how their polyamory is expressed or implemented. They would say of themselves, for instance, "I am polyamorous; my primary partner and I have an open relationship (with the following ground rules)...."

my friend and i had been talking bout open relationships as she is having an open relationship.. it sounds cool but i bet it is hard for someone who is insecure and a jealous freak to cope with this kind of relationship.. to me, i'm okey if my boyfriend wanna do 'anything' as long as i can do the exact same thing that he does... fair enough.. hehehhe... but some things should remain as secret~ ;p