went out with a friend and we talked about marriage.. and he disagreed with the idea of staying in a house together with the mother-in-law..

he said that it is not convinient and it would be very problematic if a couple were to stay with their in laws..

1. they are suppost to manage their own family without any interruption from their in laws
2. uncomfortable
3. mother-in-law or father-in-law would interfear with their personal lives

i agree with some of the points but as the only child, i think i should take care of my mom.. i can't be living in a different house then her just because i am married.. if she can sacrifice and take care of me no matter what, why can't i do the same for her right..?

if i am not there for her.. then who would..? her brothers and sisters are so far away.. my cat? if anything happens to her and i am not there.. i would never forgive myself..

it is true that i can always visit her eventho i live in a different house but still.. i can't be going to her house every single day exspecially in my field of work.. i will be so tight up with my work and i would be back late and of course i want to go home straight away and have some rest..

people may not understand because they still have their dad and they have other siblings that are still staying with their parents..

i would rather not get married then living my mother alone.. i would choose my mother more then anything..

i only have her in my life besides my cat.. and i think i owe her for raising me from a little child till i grow up.. and i know it is very hard for her to provide everything for me as a single parent.. the least that i can do to repay her is by taking care of her..



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